Daily Dose 10-29-13

Proverbs 26:20 Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down.

There’s no doubt we will have conflicts in life. Disagreements and quarrels, while expected, are not pleasing to God and should not be given a life of their own. Throughout scripture, we are called to resolve disputes with humility and move on in love. One of the greatest examples of a dispute among Christians is between Paul and John Mark. We don’t know why John Mark deserted Paul in his ministry, but reading between the lines, it was not pretty. However, their relationship was reconciled with the help of Barnabas. He encouraged both men in their separate ministries. He did not “choose a camp” and further the conflict. What was the result? As Paul was nearing the end of his ministry, he wrote to Timothy and asked him to bring John Mark with him, “because he is useful in my ministry.” God can redeem broken relationships if we allow Him. Be careful to remain neutral when you are between those in dispute. Make a choice to avoid fanning the flames of discord. Encourage both parties. It could eventually lead to restored relationships that serve the kingdom. Be a Barnabas!

Father, I know discord breaks Your heart. Make me an instrument of Your peace. Prick my heart when I am tempted to say things that should not be said. Allow me to be a Barnabas for You! I love You! Amen